How to win any competition you enter
I always love when people donât try for something because theyâre sure they wonât get it.
âIâm not going to apply to XYZ Collegeâ¦Iâll never get in, and even if I did, I could never afford it.â
âThereâs no way I would ever get that jobâ¦you need 10 years of experience.â
âWhat? Enter that contest? There are probably 5,000 other people doing it.â
YES! THEYâRE RIGHT! Theyâre never going to winâ¦because they already eliminated themselves from any consideration.
One of the best principles Iâve ever learned is, âDonât do their job for them.â Let the admissions committee reject you, if they decide youâre not right. Donât do their job for them.
Your job is to apply and give yourself every advantage in winning. But the fear of rejection makes most of us not even want to step to the plate.
Iâve written about this in the Craigslist Penis Effect. Thatâs when other people are so terrible that you win just by simply being âadequate.â Itâs one of the ways I managed to win $100,000+ in college scholarships to pay my way through undergrad and grad school at Stanford. And to get my own phrase listed on UrbanDictionary. My parents are so proud.
Today, Iâve invited Jay Cross, creator of DIY Degree and my former editor, to share a fascinating new framework on changing the way you think about taking risks.
I love his approach because so many top performers intuitively do this â but heâs written it down into a usable framework for us all. When you hear yourself saying, âEhâ¦I could never never get that,â you can use Jayâs strategies to reconceptualize the way you think about risk and success.
Put another way: Let others select themselves out of the race, while you can push through your barriers and win.
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