第1个回答 2019-08-12
Whether
we
like
it
or
not,
our
parents
are
responsible
for
us
at
least
until
we're
out
of
high
school.
So
rather
than
getting
upset
about
that
fact,
maybe
we
should
focus
on
ways
to
make
our
relationship
better.
The
best
way
to
do
that,
in
my
opinion,
is
to
learn
to
really
communicate
with
our
parents.
So
here
is
my
three-step
program
to
make
it
easier
to
communicate
with
your
parents...
Step
1:
Stop
When
I
find
myself
arguing
with
my
mom
or
dad,
I
try
to
stop.
That's
right.
I
just
try
to
hush
up
for
a
minute,
because
chances
are
good
that
I'm
being
defensive
or
confrontational
--
and
neither
one
of
those
is
constructive.
If
I
can
manage
to
stop
myself
from
talking,
I
usually
find
that
I
can
calm
down
quickly.
I
guess
I'm
usually
acting
out
of
emotion
rather
than
logic
or
reason.
But
if
I
can
quit
arguing
for
a
minute,
it
seems
that
my
perspective
changes
and
I
start
to
realize
that
I'm
being
a
bit
childish.
Emotionally
I
may
still
be
upset,
but
logically
I
understand
that
yelling
and
fighting
definitely
doesn't
make
things
better!
Step
2:
Look
Once
I've
stopped
arguing,
I
look
my
parents
in
the
eye.
You'd
be
amazed
at
how
much
easier
it
is
to
communicate
with
your
parents
when
you're
actually
looking
at
them.
Looking
away
doesn't
do
much
of
anything
except
give
them
the
impression
that
I'm
not
listening
or
that
I
don't
care.
Also,
when
I'm
looking
away
it's
easy
to
start
thinking
about
what
I'm
going
to
say
next,
instead
of
concentrating
on
what
my
parents
are
saying
to
me.
It's
much
easier
to
see
things
eye-to-eye
when
you're
physically
seeing
eye-to-eye.
Step
3:
Listen
Finally,
I
listen
to
what
they're
saying
(or
at
least
I
try).
Communication
can't
happen
unless
both
sides
hear
--
and
listen
to
--
each
other.
There
is
nothing
wrong
with
my
hearing,
but
that
doesn't
mean
I
always
listen
to
the
sounds
that
people
are
making.
When
I
argue
with
my
parents,
I
can
physically
hear
what
they're
saying
without
mentally
listening
to
it.
Whether
I
want
to
admit
it
or
not,
my
mom
and
dad
have
been
on
this
earth
a
lot
longer
than
I
have
--
and
their
experience
can
actually
help
them
give
some
pretty
sound
advice
at
times.
But
if
that
advice
falls
on
proverbial
"deaf
ears",
it's
not
going
to
make
much
of
a
difference.
That's
why
I
try
to
stop,
look,
and
listen
instead
of
arguing
with
my
parents.
I
don't
always
agree
with
them
--
even
after
I've
heard
them
out
--
but
I
think
it's
safe
to
say
that
it
truly
has
helped
our
relationship
over
the
long
run.
Tips
for
Better
Communication
with
Your
Parents
By
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2008
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window1.
Talking
to
your
parents
about
everyday
things
is
a
way
of
building
a
strong
connection.
2.
Let
your
parents
know
you
want
their
full
attention
by
telling
them
you
have
something
important
you
need
to
talk
to
them
about
instead
of
saying
when
they
have
time
you
would
like
to
speak
to
them.
And
then
pick
a
time
that
is
best
for
both
of
you.
3.
Use
"I"
statements
instead
of
"you"
so
you
don't
sound
argumentative.
4.
Writing
it
down
may
make
it
easier
to
both
find
a
way
to
express
yourself
and
manage
all
points
that
need
to
be
addressed.
5.
Instead
of
calling
your
parent's
ideas
stupid
tell
them
you
do
not
agree.
This
helps
to
not
escalate
the
issue.
6.
Sometimes
it
is
easier
to
talk
to
another
adult
that
may
not
be
so
apt
to
form
an
opinion.
Teachers,
counselors,
therapists,
or
even
a
doctor
can
help
you
with
ideas,
or
just
listen
and
most
adults
will
keep
your
conversations
confidential
if
you
ask
them
to,
unless
they
fear
that
your
health
or
well-being
may
be
in
jeopardy.
7.
Don't
worry
about
getting
him
or
her
in
trouble
if
your
friend
has
a
eating
disorder,
is
suicidal
or
being
abused
waiting
for
the
right
time
may
mean
things
get
too
far
out
of
hand.
8.
If
you
feel
you
are
in
danger
of
physical
or
mental
abuse
talking
to
a
responsible
adult
is
very
important.
第2个回答 2019-03-09
It
was
the
worst
day
today.I
had
a
quarrel
with
my
best
friend
Danny
over
a
trifle,
this
morning
Danny
carelessly
broke
my
pen
but
didn't
say
sorry,
I
couldn't
understand
this
at
the
moment.
However,
I
was
so
depressed
after
that,
I
didn't
know
where
to
go
and
what
to
do,
I
indeed
lost
myself
all
day.
Actually,
it's
really
really
a
trifle,
Danny
is
not
always
this
kind
of
person,
on
the
contrary,
he
often
helps
the
trouble,
he
is
talented
in
singing
and
palying
footable.
we
were
in
the
same
footable
team,
he
had
the
teamwork.
Maybe
I
requested
more
on
him
and
annoyed
him,
maybe
he
is
getting
involved
in
troubles,
maybe
I
should
tell
him
it's
not
so
serious.
One
pen
shouldn't
spoil
our
pure
relationship.
After
thinking
about
these,
I
decided
to
tell
him
what
I
am
thinking
of.
I
also
believe
we
will
still
be
good
friends.
第3个回答 2019-11-02
Uncle
Wang
didn't
feel
very
well
yesterday,
so
he
went
to
see
the
doctor.
The
doctor
said
it
was
nothing
serious.
But
the
doctor
gave
him
some
advice.
Uncle
Wang
should
sleep
earlier
and
wake
up
ealier.
He
should
also
do
more
exercises.
He
should
eat
more
beef,
lamb,
fruit,
vegetables.
He
should
also
drink
more
tea.
He
had
better
not
to
argue
with
others.
Besides
those,
he
should
stop
smoking.
第4个回答 2019-10-28
There
is
one
say
that
hobby
can
affect
one's
life
and
action.
Someone
says
people
who
love
writing
can
live
a
long
life
and
who
love
drawing
can
enlarge
their
thoughts.
someone
says
who
love
touring
can
get
a
great
deal
of
knowledge
and
who
love
climbing
can
get
great
patience.
Anther
says
is
that
the
one
who
plants
flowers
as
hobby
may
get
advantage
on
eating
and
the
one
who
love
music
can
improve
his
or
her
feelings
of
life.
There
are
also
says
that
internent
can
enlarge
one's
knoeledge,
fishing
can
change
one's
blood
press.
After
a
record,
result
come
out.
About
67
percents
people
agree
on
this
and
the
rest
disagree.
I
think
it
is
right
for
a
large
part
of
people
and
don't
fit
for
a
little
part
of
us.