Being responsibly adds meaning to our lives, giving us a sense of empowerment. Here are some steps you can take to become a more responsible person.
Understand that responsibility is earned.If someone give you additional responsibility, it's probably because you've been responbl. But irresponsible peopldo things as long as they're challenging, fun, and new, and when that fades, they lose interest.
Deal with issues that are forced upon you.
A responsible person does what he said he'd do because he said he would. If you want to be seen as more responsible, think about the responsibilities you already have and take them more seriously, no matter how pointless they might seem. Consider it a way to pay your dues.
planned pregnancy; caring for a disabled child; or helping family members when they need help.
Stop making excuses. In any situation, there are always some factors we can't control. Irresponsible people tend to shift the blame onto those factors, and vocalize them as excuses. Anytime you make an excuse, it's like saying "I am not responsible for this because..." and what you're really saying is "I am not responsible." Pay attention to how you think and talk: do you find yourself making excuses? Excuses come in many shapes and sizes, but the most common is "I would/would've, BUT..
Start small. As with most other tasks, acting responsibly works best when you can get a bit of momentum going. If you feel crushed under a backlog of responsibilities, start with a few small or fast tasks. Being able to cross them off your list will make you feel as though a weight has been lifted, making you more enthusiastic about moving on to bigger responsibilities. Before you know it, being responsible will make you feel good and add value to your day.
Don't forget anything. There’s a difference between starting a load of laundry before tackling that homework assignment and cleaning the entire house so that you end up “having to” put a project off for another day.
Learn from your mistakes. Making the most of a mistake is a double-whammy of responsibility: not only does this transform time that was otherwise wasted into a valuable, course-altering experience, but it keeps you from wasting future time by ensuring that you don’t repeat yourself.
View yourself as a creator When you see something that needs doing or needs to change, don't wait for somebody else to do it; be the one to make a positive difference. Taking charge will make you feel powerful, which will spill into and improve many other aspects of your life.
Set goals. Clarify What You Want. Always know where you are now and where you are going. What you get by achieving your goals is not as important as what you become by achieving your goals
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